To be fair Dick - as a reader of the posts, I wasn’t bothered by the first post in the thread by Rusty, or by the second - but I was bothered by what appeared to be a personal attack on Dan in his third.
Chad highlighted the rule “no personal attacks” in his posting here…
http://www.rcsailing.net/forum1/showthread.php?t=1&highlight=forum+rules.
I won’t comment further on this incident specifically. I’m guessing there was some offline communication between Dan and Rusty - but it’s up to Dan whether he wants to comment on that. Rusty can’t comment (as he’s locked out) so it would be entirely unfair of me or anyone else to direct criticism at Rusty when he has no ability to reply, other than to observe (fairly I think) that the post in question did look to be a personal attack.
On a broader note, I think many of us get sick of the nature of some posts on some forums - where people use the anonymity of the forum, and the lack of control to post personal attacks, make libelous statements and populate their posts with the type of language that would make a sailor blush. This forum, in the post-DL days, has been on the most part free of such behaviour, and I thank Chad, the moderators and the participants for that. I take part in Windpower too (as you know) and it is at least as well mannered - probably more so.
I make occaisional postings to the Victoria forum (as a Victoria owner) but bypass much of the “noise” that gets in the way there. Because I own an IOM, I monitor both the IOMICA and US IOM forums and, out of interest, USOM forum. Again - good behaviour on the whole - and even when tempers get tested a bit (such as in the pre-IOM Worlds discussion on rule changes) people manage to hold it together.
At the other extreme, I can’t be bothered with the type of posting that takes place in the Sailing Anarchy forum, and although I lurk from time to time, I don’t take part. I haven’t taken part is Wis’s Hardcore RC Sailing forum either - though I do lurk. I mean no criticism of Wis or Cougar - and I can see an upside in a forum where ideas just get floated for just for the hell of it (great things can come from such an approach) - but at the end of the day I’m an old fashioned guy who appreciates manners - even in conflict.
The forum medium, as a proxy for conversation, is filled with opportunity for misinterpretation - even when tools such as smily face icons are used to suggest humor (something you of course know very well, and experienced on another forum recently). All I can say is that I’m glad some forum users are not also in charge of the nuclear deterent - with such short tempers we’d be screwed :watching_
You are right to raise the points Dick, particularly with regard to the automatic invitation. I suspect (Dan or Chad can confirm) that it is fully automatic as I had the same invite with the same wording from another (non-sailing) forum I belong to but had not posted to for some time.
I’m off on a tangent - but I do want to thank the administrator and moderators for keeping this forum (mostly) clean. I know it must be hard to strike a balance between encouraging full and frank discussion and still retaining individual respect and courtesy.
As somebody once said - the right of free speech comes at a price.
OK y’all. Flame away.